One last fun method of asking your bridesmaids to be your bridesmaids is by taking them on a date. Plan a fun girls day, either separately with each girl or with everyone all together. Treat your girls to a mani/pedi or much needed spa treatment. Take them out to a nice lunch and make them feel special. Being your best friends, they would love to spend a day with you and will be so thrilled when you finally ask them the question. You can also take them to Starbucks and have the barista put “bridesmaid?” or “maid of honor?” on their drinks as a cute little surprise for your date.